Dear GF911: A Letter of Gratitude

Dear Girlfriend 911,

Even though I don't know you, I felt compelled to write and tell you so that you know that reading your book and following your advice saved me, and possibly my life! I am not even joking.  Cutting off communication with my ex was not only healing, but eye opening on what I really need in a realtionship. If I would have kept going on trying to be "friends" with him, the confusion would have made me do something that I would be embarrassed about, or worse, I would have looked psycho to everyone. Not sure what I would have done, and I shudder at the thought of it.

So, now after almost one and half months of not talking, I finally have true clarity. I am completely over him and the situation! I am at pure peace and bliss right now. There was such a fog over my eyes and a hurt that I didn't want to confront. I give so much gratitude to you and your book, your insight and your advice. So many of my friends cannot believe how far I have come. I know that cutting communication with him really saved me. I cannot thank you enough!

I am sending so much love and light your way. Please know that I honestly could not have done this without you and your book. I am truly blessed to have you as a part of my life.

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Forever Grateful

Do You Believe in Fate?

A friend of mine sent this to me and I absolutely love it! I truly believe if you're meant to be with someone you will be and nothing will stop it. Do you guys believe in fate and destiny?

Dating Tips From Guys!

Here's some great dating advice for women from men.  Although I don't agree with everything they're saying, I always love to hear a man's point of view. My favorite one is number 7: Know You're Awesome; "I like a girl to be confident going into a date, even if it's the first one. The normal guy-girl interactions on initial outings usually fall somewhere between awkward and really awkward (which is understandable, especially if it's a blind date), so having a girl go the opposite route not only makes her more intriguing-it's also a total turn-on." Alex S

Monday Musings - Girl Power!

Best advice for a Monday morning! Self love is the key to happiness, so make sure you're taking care of your self first before you put all your energies into someone else.

Food For Thought!

I absolutely love this, and find it to be so true. In my book, GIRLFRIEND 911, I talk about how important it is to cultivate a strong foundation and friendship first before jumping into bed as sex can often get in the way and complicate things. "Let the man ask you out on a proper date, get dressed up, have him pick you up (assuming it’s safe and you haven’t just met on the Internet), have him choose the restaurant, let him pay (yes, at least the first few dates), and watch the evening unfold. If you enjoy your time together, you do it again and again building a strong foundation and a friendship - one of the key ingredients needed for a long term, healthy relationship. This is also how you explore each other and test your chemistry. Attraction and romance have to build.  The more time you give it to build up, the more explosive it will be when you finally take it to the next level. By this time he's invested in you, and less likely to run or want to exit."  Girlfriend 911

Madea - Let Em Go!

A friend sent this to me, and it's everything I preach in my book, GIRLFRIEND 911. You can't make someone love you and if they want out of the relationship the only thing you should ever do is to "exit gracefully" and just let them go.

Apparently Madea and I are on the same page on this one. Her advice is brilliant, practical and awesome. I hope everyone listens to this and follows it. "If someone wants to walk out of your life LET THEM GO....whatever they are running after they will see what they had in a minute, but by then it's gonna be too late."

Madea - Let em' Go from Joshua Davis on Vimeo.

The Dating Game of Hot and Cold

This is a pretty accurate assessment of what happens when you're dating someone, or in a relatively new relationship. At first everything seems to be going well, but then suddenly out of nowhere your man pulls away and you're left feeling frustrated and confused. You have no idea why this happened and what you might have done to cause him to pull away.  This author calls it the "dating game of hot and cold" and I guarantee you we've all experienced it in one form or another. 

In my book, GIRLFRIEND 911, I explain in detail my "Girlfriend 911 formula" which I designed specifically for this type of scenario.  If you follow my "Girlfriend 911 formula" you will learn how to navigate the game of "hot and cold" so that you'll never find yourself disempowered, frustrated, angry or confused when suddenly your man shuts down and pulls away.