It's Not You, It's Me!

Rough weekend for your relationship? Here's some more kick-ass dating and relationship advice from my book, GIRLFRIEND 911. 

Most women get angry with me when I tell them that whatever is not working in their dating and relationship situations is their fault. No one likes to be blamed for anything, and as a society we seem to have a hard time owning our stuff. But here's the truth; if you’ve been in a bunch of relationships that haven’t worked out, guess what, it’s not about the guy; it’s about YOU. If you've dated guys that are jerks who didn't treat you right and disrespected you, that's your fault. I know it sounds harsh but it's the truth. Somewhere along the way you forgot to stand up for yourself and you allowed that behavior. You allowed your man to get away with anything and everything, so that's on you.  I know you know what I'm saying is true, so instead of looking at past relationships as negatives, look at them as positives and learn from your mistakes and change YOUR behavior. 

Download a copy of my book, GIRLFRIEND 911 to learn how to stand up for yourself in your relationships, and how to stop repeating old negative patterns.

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