Perfect Timing

Waiting for perfect timing is something I've always struggled with -- my frustration at things not happening in my timing when I want them to manifest. But, there is something to be said about learning to sit back and be patient, and wait for perfect timing. Things don't always happen when we want them to, and that frustrates a lot of people. But that's because the universe knows best. There is a perfect time and place for all things to happen. A "sweet spot" so to speak. If you try to rush or force timing, no matter what you do, things will not happen the way you want them to. This is especially true in matters of the heart.

Case in point, in 2008 one of my first clients reconnected with an old friend at her high school reunion. Sparks flew and the chemistry was intense. They went out a few times and had tons of fun, but it didn't work out. They weren't in the right place in their lives for a serious relationship. Timing wasn't right. About a year later, they reconnected again. A few text messages went back and forth, they had another great date, but it soon fizzled. This same scenario would play out three more times throughout the years, but things never worked out, despite their intense chemistry. Then...there was a two year gap, and when they reconnected again, everything was different. They were different. They were both ready for a mature relationship, and timing could not be more perfect for both of them. 7 years later!!...They finally found their sweet spot.

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