I'm Just Sayin'...You Complement Me!

I always love reading comments after my posts and seeing what readers have to say on the topic of dating and relationships. I recently wrote an article entitled "Five Ways To Stop Sabotaging Your Relationships." One of the reader comments really resonated with me, and I wanted to share it with you:

I enjoyed this. Interesting you mention that Jerry McGuire line, "you complete me." I was just thinking of that the other day and what came to mind was that, in real life, it should be more about "you complement me." The moment either individual starts looking at the other one to complete them or make them who they are/want to be is the moment a relationship starts to become unhealthy - and soon, unhappy. 

I couldn't agree more. You don't have to be in a relationship to be complete. Only you can complete you. Work on YOURSELF. If you are not healthy and whole, you can't be healthy and whole in a relationship.  It's the law of attraction. "Like attracts like." What you put out there is what you attract back. And once you are in a long-term relationship remember neither partner should ever have to compromise being who they are; rather, each should support the other.


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