Why Modern Dating Makes Me Want To Punch Myself In The Throat!

This is an awesome article and a definite must read!!! I love how the author just tells it like it is.  Unfortunately, she's correct – it is pretty darn depressing out there trying to navigate  the very complicated world of dating and relationships.

"Don’t ask to hangout two nights in a row. If you texted first last time, you have to wait for him to text you first this time. Don’t double text. You can’t assume anything is more than casual, even if you’re having sex. But you can’t talk about it either. If you’re wondering where a relationship is going and you decide to bring it up, every word you say has to be carefully chosen so as to seem okay with any response you’re given, even if you’re not. Everything is done through texting. It’s weird to call someone in the modern world just to have a conversation or try to make plans, so we’re forced to wait anxiously for a response that might not ever come."

In my book GIRLFRIEND 911 I offer women tons of advice as to how to figure this stuff out so it's not so complicated and frustrating.  Starting with: Be real, be honest with your thoughts and feelings, don't play games, mean what you say and say what you mean, communicate how you are truly feeling – what you need and what you want out of any given situation – and watch things become a lot more simplified:   http://tcat.tc/1U90NMj

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