I absolutely love this, because what it's really saying is you can only try so hard and then you just have to surrender, especially when it comes to dating and relationships. If it's meant to be, it will be. If it isn't, you have to walk away. You can't keep pushing, trying to make a square peg fit into a round hole. I talk about the ability to surrender and relinquish control in my book, GIRLFRIEND 911. It's hard to let go and let things happen organically, but seriously if the door is not opening easily and effortlessly, then perhaps it's not your door!!