I know this will resonate with a lot of women, because more than men we tend to take care of everyone else, except ourselves. In my book, Girlfriend 911, I talk about the importance of loving your self and taking care of your self. I call it "feeding your soul." You have to pay attention to YOU! It's so hard for women to put themselves above everyone else, but it's one of the key ingredients to having a healthy and happy relationship. Take care of yourself first, then you can help everyone else!