Why are these basic principles sometimes so hard to follow? I talk a lot in my book, Girlfriend 911, about learning how to surrender, letting go of things that aren't working in your life, and opening yourself up to bigger and better possibilities. And yet we all get stuck and blocked and just can't find the strength to move past what we know isn't working. So my advice is to practice the art of surrendering - let go of your need to control all outcomes in your life and allow things to just unfold. At the end of the day, I really believe everything in our lives happen exactly as they are supposed to, so just have faith it will all work out, because it usually does!