In my book, Girlfriend 911, I talk about how connection to one's True Self is the key to finding the answers you're looking for. When I am connected to my truth—operating from a completely truthful, authentic place—I feel whole, and from that space I know the possibilities are infinite. I'm a big believer in the law of attraction, "like attracts like." What you put out there is what you attract back. So if you're looking for a happy and healthy relationship you gotta love your SELF first!